Letters to Dear Abby

Flirting and Self-Esteem

A woman who was married for 25 years to a man who flirted with other women, despite her feelings of hurt and inadequacy, has found happiness with a new partner. She advises women in similar situations to "unpack as soon as possible and do not look back." The woman, who has been married to her new husband for many years, feels loved and valued, and believes that her ex-husband’s behavior was a result of his own insecurity and need for constant validation.

Passing on Family History

A baby boomer and amateur genealogist is frustrated that their grandchildren show little interest in learning about their family history. They recall being fascinated by their own grandparents’ stories and worry that their own stories will not be passed down. Dear Abby suggests that the genealogist start writing down their stories and putting them in diaries or journals to be read later, and consider sharing them with local or state historical societies.

Respectful Communication

A person is annoyed by "friends" who only call them when they need help with errands or shopping, and feel like an afterthought. Dear Abby advises them to tell their friends that they should call when they are not distracted, such as when they get home. This way, the person can have a more meaningful and respectful conversation with their friends.