Confused Colleagues and Lingering Memories
Introduction to Concerns
A colleague, Erin, has been working from home since the COVID-19 pandemic, while the rest of the team returned to the office. This arrangement has caused strain and resentment among team members, who feel it’s unfair. Erin recently took a new job without informing her current boss, fearing a negative reaction. When the news was shared with the boss, it led to a complicated situation.
The Dilemma of Deception
The person who shared the news with the boss is now caught in a web of deception. However, it’s argued that informing the boss about Erin’s new job was the right thing to do, as it demonstrates loyalty to the company. In some states, taking a new job while still on the payroll of another company can be grounds for termination.
Memories of the Past
An individual is experiencing a surge of memories from years ago, particularly conversations where they wish they had reacted differently. These memories are causing distress and an inability to stop thinking about what could have been said. It’s suggested that this could be due to having too much free time, and the mind wandering back to past events.
Shifting Focus
To address this issue, it’s recommended to shift thoughts to something else and recognize that the past cannot be changed. However, lessons can be learned from past experiences to avoid repeating mistakes in the future. If these memories are causing significant depression or anxiety, consulting a therapist may be beneficial.
Etiquette and Reverence
A question was raised about the etiquette of attending Mass with reverence, specifically regarding the posture of crossing one’s legs. While it’s considered disrespectful in some Orthodox cultures, in America, it’s seen as too casual for a church setting. The importance of good manners and attitude, especially in religious settings, is emphasized.
Conclusion
These concerns highlight the complexities of workplace dynamics, personal memories, and social etiquette. Addressing these issues with sensitivity and seeking advice when needed can help navigate complex situations and promote personal growth.
