A Woman’s Plea for Compensation
A 34-year-old woman who was dumped after a decade of dating is seeking financial compensation from her ex-boyfriend for stealing her "childbearing years." She believes her former flame should pay for artificial insemination or egg freezing after abandoning her.
The Backstory
The woman had made professional sacrifices to accommodate her ex’s ambitions, as they had verbally agreed that he would be the main breadwinner when they had children. However, he recently told her that he’s not ready for marriage and kids yet, and she’s now left feeling emotionally devastated and vulnerable.
Demanding Compensation
The woman feels that her ex owes her a lot and wants him to pay for the damage caused to their plans by his change of heart and broken promises. She argues that he should bear some responsibility for helping her mitigate the damage, considering her life decisions were affected by their plans together.
A Moral Dilemma
A "Moral Money" columnist sympathized with the singleton’s situation but acknowledged that it would be impossible to make a successful case for damages. The columnist advised the woman to change her mindset from demanding compensation to investing in her own resilience.
Public Reaction
The column went viral on social media, with many readers questioning why the woman waited ten years for her boyfriend to enter the next phase of commitment. Some argued that she should have made the decision to leave him several years ago, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility and agency.
A Warning to Others
One user warned women in their late 20s and early 30s to be careful about how long they stay with a man who doesn’t actively show he’s seriously committed. They suggested that if the relationship doesn’t work out within two years, it’s up to the individual to reevaluate and potentially end the relationship.
