Marriage and Finances
A woman, married to her second husband "Jack" for 19 years, is seeking advice on their financial situation. When they met, she was a business owner and he was retired with numerous medical problems. She always insured him in her health plans and was his lawyer. They have separate bank accounts and a household account where they contribute equally. However, now that her income has increased, Jack wants her to contribute a larger part of her salary to the household account. She feels this expectation is unfair, especially since she does most of the household and farm tasks due to his limited ability and strength.
A Business Relationship
The marriage seems to be a business relationship rather than a partnership. The woman is advised to discuss her financial situation with a financial advisor, especially since she is unsure about her husband’s estate plans and may need these funds later. She should consider her own retirement plans and not solely rely on her husband’s money.
Dealing with Dietary Restrictions
A person with celiac disease is attending a celebration for their niece’s doctorate and is concerned about the food options. The bakery catering the event is small and has no online presence. The person is advised to call the bakery and inform them about their dietary restrictions, asking if they can be accommodated beyond a baked potato. If the answer is no, they should bring something they can eat.
Communicating Dietary Needs
It is essential to communicate dietary needs clearly and in advance. The person should not assume that the bakery cannot accommodate their needs simply because they have no online presence. By calling and asking, they may be pleasantly surprised by the bakery’s willingness to help. If not, they can bring their own food to ensure they have something to eat during the celebration.
